Trust yourself. Listen to your ‘inner voice’. You are the one who usually know what’s best for you. Don’t pay a lot of attention to what other people tell you. Most people are too concerned with security and the only way they will ever ‘take a risk’ is if they’re guaranteed up front that every-thing is going to work out. Believe in what you can accomplish. To be successful, ‘trust yourself’ first, and that means ignoring most of what everyone else thinks you ‘ought to be doing’.
Most advice comes from well-meaning people who are just passing along their own limitations. TRUST YOURSELF and ‘do what you believe is right’. Other people don’t know better than you do. Listen, at times, to advice and wisdom from others but then you’ve got to sort out what you’ve heard, and decide for yourself what you need to do. Develop a sense of ‘What’s the right or wrong thing to do’.
Above all, follow your ‘heart’.